{"id":5961,"date":"2012-07-19T23:37:30","date_gmt":"2012-07-19T13:37:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mojitomother.com\/?p=5961"},"modified":"2013-08-25T21:52:04","modified_gmt":"2013-08-25T11:52:04","slug":"changing-yourself-for-the-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojitomother.com\/2012\/07\/changing-yourself-for-the-better\/","title":{"rendered":"Changing yourself for the better: most people don’t want to change"},"content":{"rendered":"
It’s been proven to me time and time again,\u00a0yet I still can’t believe it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n
I just can’t understand it.<\/p>\n
If you have a problem or if things aren\u2019t working for you in life than the best solution is to fix it. Most of the time it means to change.<\/p>\n
Sounds easy to me.<\/p>\n
Except most people want their problems fixed without having to change, not understanding that the thing that needs to be changed is why the problem is there the first place.<\/p>\n
I was chatting with a friend about this. A friend of a friend needs to make changes or else the road ahead is not pretty. A road they don’t want, but will take because they don\u2019t want to change.<\/p>\n
They fear what the change will bring.<\/p>\n
It’s a matter of well if I change then who will I be<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n That loss of identity is more frightening than the path they don’t want.<\/p>\n